So, I was struck by the quote on page 170 that says: "There is no escaping it, the fact of mother and child, as synchronous and inseparable as left and right, up and down, back and front, sun and moon."
It is really interesting to me because so far the relationship between Mai and her mother does not at all sound like this description. In fact, since the beginning of Mai's tale, there has been a disconnect between Mai and her mother. The disconnect associates Mai with the western world (aka America) and Thanh with the eastern world (aka Vietnam). There seems to be no bridge between the two and it only perpetuates this disconnect in their communication and understanding of each other. However, it does seem strange that Thanh talks about her journey being the same one as Mai's because upon a second glance Thanh's story is the story of Mai... only backwards! When Mai came to America, her assimilation was smooth and quick. However, four years later we find that the transition is flawed and incomplete. She begins to question her homeland and tries to find peace with her familial history. Thanh's transition was initially very difficult. She had a stroke, which made it even more impossible to assimilate creating a shadow of who she had been in Vietnam. However, after her rehabilitation from the stroke, she is beginning to piece together a new life and make a slow transition into America. This represents an inverse relationship between Mai and her mother, possibly the root of the disconnect we see between them!